Blog Posts on monogamy

Scared to be Me by Definitely Filipino on Feb 28, 2012I am gay. My story is unlike many others I've heard, even filled with less hardship. My parents did not like it of course yet they accepted and loved me and my boyfriend nonetheless. However, sometimes even for me it is hard for the word to come out...

My partner cheated on me, what should I do? by dragonanswers on Jan 24, 2012This is a problem nobody wants to have and many would say the damage caused is irrecoverable, but it doesn’t always mean the end of your relationship if you’re willing to work at it. If it happens to you its extremely hurtful and shatters the t...

Sex and Subjectivity by The Critical Thinker(tm) on Aug 3, 2011Sex is a tricky subject for the reason that any discussion of sex almost automatically involves relationships and it could likely involve moral arguments — in short: ripe ground for subjectivity. Subjectivity is not necessarily the enemy of cri...

My partner cheated on me, what should I do? by dragonanswers on Jul 23, 2011This is a problem nobody wants to have and many would say the damage caused is...

ARE GAY GUYS OBSESSED WITH SEX?? by I came out under the BED not in the CLOSET on Apr 17, 2011  My thoughts and opinions on Davey Wavey’s post.   Ok, Its my off today and prolly tomorrow, my coleague’s gonna ask me (again) what did I do last night. with a matching devilish smile.  See, I may be gay but that doesn’t...

Hubby and Dubby. Marks Another Year. Yipee! by I came out under the BED not in the CLOSET on Dec 22, 2010  My sweet hubby, we have made it to another year! I don't know how it is possible that we are at that year mark already. Crazy how time flies. I can honestly say that it's been another year of happiness and love which I want to thank you fo...

Negotiated infidelity by Going against the current on Nov 5, 2010http://aboutmyrecovery.com I just love the phrase and the cleverness of its construction that gives rise to multifarious nuances. This I got from an Australian woman who practices this with his boyfriend. They were featured in one of National Geograp...

Thoughts on sex (Part 2) by Going against the current on Jul 31, 2010This is an addendum to Somebody’s thoughts on sex (Part 1) “You told me it is not anymore important to you.” “Yes, but it does not mean it is not anymore important. It definitely is, still.” I have nothing against constricting my sex life i...

HE CHANGED ME, totally. by I came out under the BED not in the CLOSET on Jun 9, 2010  Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up.   [***Disclaimer: If you are single...don't tune me out.  Read to the end. ...

THE SULTRY LIBRARIAN'S GLASSES by BEHIND THE CAMERA on Jun 8, 2010Book Quotes Of The Day:"The Superclass are now making love to the girl who managed to gatecrash the party and who is game for anything. They're taking off their make-up, studying the lines on their faces and thinking that it's time for more plas...